Nine months pregnant, I fell down the stairs after my mother-in-law decided I was no longer good enough for her son. Lying there in pain, I realized my life was never safe in that house.

The Blackwood Estate in the hills of Vermont was less a home and more a monument to suffocating history. It was a sprawling, Gothic revival fortress of cold marble floors, vaulted ceilings, and corridors that echoed with centuries of unearned arrogance.