Barack Obama recently made a candid and surprising comment about his marriage to Michelle Obama, shedding light on the personal challenges they faced after leaving the White House. Speaking at the O2 Arena in London during a conversation with historian David Olusoga, Obama admitted:
“I was digging myself out of the hole I found myself with Michelle. Now I’m at about level ground.”
This remark echoed earlier statements he made in April 2025 at Hamilton College, where he confessed that his presidency had taken a toll on their relationship. He described being in a “deep deficit” with Michelle and said he had been trying to repair things by spending more quality time together and doing “occasionally fun things”.
Speculation about their marriage had intensified in recent years, especially after Michelle skipped several high-profile events, including Donald Trump’s inauguration and the funeral of former President Jimmy Carter. These absences led to unfounded rumors of a marital rift.
Michelle addressed these rumors directly on podcasts, including The Diary of a CEO and Work in Progress, stating:
“If I were having problems with my husband, everybody would know about it. I would be problem solving in public. I’m not a martyr.”
She emphasized that her decisions to step back from public appearances were personal choices, not signs of marital discord. The Obamas, married since 1992, continue to share a strong bond and have two daughters, Malia and Sasha.
Their openness about post-presidency struggles offers a rare glimpse into the complexities of balancing public service with private life — and the ongoing work of maintaining a long-term relationship under intense scrutiny.
