I’m Matthew, and at an age when I should be enjoying my retirement, I’m back at work. Why? Because a year ago, my son told me he was broke and desperate. I did what any father would do—I opened my home to him, his wife, and their three children. He promised it was temporary.
That was twelve months ago. Since then, I’ve been the one working long hours to pay for their groceries, their utilities, and their lives, while my son hasn’t lifted a finger to find a steady job. Yesterday, I finally hit my limit. I sat him down and gave him a choice: “Get a job or get out.”
He didn’t look worried. He just smiled and handed me an envelope. My heart stopped when I opened it and saw an ultrasound picture. They’re having a fourth child. They had been keeping it a secret while living under my roof and spending my retirement savings.
I asked him how he could possibly think this was a good idea when he can’t even support the three kids he already has. He just got defensive and said, “Things will work out,” and told me I should be happy for them. But I’m not happy. I’m exhausted. I feel used.
I’ve given him two months to move out. Part of me feels incredibly cruel—those kids are innocent souls. But another part of me knows that if I don’t stop being the safety net, he will never learn to fly. Am I betraying my grandchildren, or am I finally teaching my son how to be an adult? I honestly don’t know anymore.
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